Homesickness, Growth, and Going Home: Reflecting on My Semester Abroad

As my semester at Yonsei University comes to an end, I find myself reflecting on the journey that I have had, not just across the world, but within myself.  From my very first day here, homesickness was a constant companion that I had.  No matter how exciting the city was, or how many new friends I made, there was always a part of me that missed home deeply.  

Homesickness is not something that we often talk about when we picture studying abroad.  We usually imagine the adventures, independence, and new experiences, but not always the longing for familiar faces, routines, and comforts.  Before coming here, I didn’t even consider the fact that I would feel so homesick, but now, for me, that longing for home has not really ever faded away.  I have come to realize, though, that feeling so homesick means that I have a lot to go home to.  I get to go home to all of the people who love me, the community that supports me, and a life that I truly value.  

This semester has been challenging, but also so incredibly valuable.  Living in a new country and culture has taught me so much about myself and the things that matter the most to me.  I have learned to appreciate the little things that I once took for granted, and to cherish the people who care about me that much more.  The experiences that I have had here, whether they were good or difficult, have helped me to grow in ways that I have never expected.  

As I wrap up my semester and prepare to return to Bentley, I know that I am going home as a better person. My studies abroad at Yonsei have given me a new perspective on my life back at home, and I am grateful for every moment, even the tough ones.  If you are struggling with homesickness while you’re abroad, just know that you’re not alone and that it’s okay to miss home.  It just means that you have something truly special waiting for you back on the other side of the world.  

I am excited to reunite with my friends and family and to bring everything that I have learned here back with me.  Thank you, Seoul, for the many lessons, memories, and growth that you have brought me.  I cannot wait to see what is next, and to someday come back.